You'reasian Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 How does our interest in our mate's hair color evolve? I think we tend to come up with what we like from what we've liked before by association and it kind of sticks. Anyone else?
Author You'reasian Posted January 1, 2009 Author Posted January 1, 2009 I have no particular preference. I don't either, but from time to time, it seems like we get into hair color trends. Brown for a while, blonde for a while etc.
D-Lish Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I love men with Black hair and blue eyes... But I've mostly dated blondes long term. I have no clue where that preference comes from.
JoeNewbie Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I always thought I was more into brunettes but as time goes by, I figure I'm mostly attracted to good looking girls who take good care of their hair.
Isolde Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I've always preferred light haired guys, but I get hit on by more dark haired guys. It's not all that important in the end. I have dark brown hair.
johan Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I don't either' date=' but from time to time, it seems like we get into hair color trends. Brown for a while, blonde for a while etc.[/quote'] When I'm dating a blonde, I become more attracted to brunettes and red-heads. When I'm dating a brunette, I become more attracted to blondes and red-heads. I've never dated a red-head, but I imagine that if I did I would start to like blondes and brunettes more.
Author You'reasian Posted January 1, 2009 Author Posted January 1, 2009 When I'm dating a blonde, I become more attracted to brunettes and red-heads. When I'm dating a brunette, I become more attracted to blondes and red-heads. I've never dated a red-head, but I imagine that if I did I would start to like blondes and brunettes more. hmm. so the grass is greener so to speak? I've tended to stick to hair colors over time. Brown for a while, black for a while, blonde for a while. Hair color alone obviously isn't the sole character trait that one is attracted to, but its an interesting trait to track. Can we assume that our hair color preference is coorelated with our relationship desires? In your case, it looks like you always like different hair colors. Do you also like to date around alot rather than committ?
BubblyPopcorn Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 My preference is brown hair/brown eyes but my first LTR he had light brown/blondish hair with blue eyes and my second LTR he had dark brown hair and brown eyes. Both had completley different looks and my attraction is based on the whole package so haircolor really isn't an important factor on my end.
johan Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Being attracted and/or noticing who is attractive to me does not equate to action. I tend to date women who I like a lot and wouldn't want to hurt. And I commit to them. Usually ones I shouldn't. And in between I spend long periods of time single. Not dating anyone at the moment has made blondes, brunettes, and red-heads equally appealing.
RichGuy Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I prefer golden blonde hair and baby blue eyes, the gentleman's choice.
Author You'reasian Posted January 1, 2009 Author Posted January 1, 2009 I prefer golden blonde hair and baby blue eyes, the gentleman's choice. .......Nice.
zilverenvlinder Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I've always had a soft spot for good looking redheaded guys. My friend does too, which is how we bonded. ;-) I am huge into Prince Harry.
Isolde Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I've always had a soft spot for good looking redheaded guys. My friend does too, which is how we bonded. ;-) I am huge into Prince Harry. Were we separated at birth? Prince Harry is pretty much what my dream guy looks like.
zilverenvlinder Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Ahh Isolde! You, me and my friend Anne are now official members of the Ginger Boy Fan Club. :-D
melodymatters Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I am almost universially attracted to dark haired men. My grandfather was my "main man" and had black hair, so possibly that is why. Also, I am a blue eyed blonde, so maybe there is a primevil genetic disposition so that our genes will be varied enough for healthy children. Eye color doesn't matter, though ideally, dark hair light eyes. My first true love though : a brown eyed blonde, so it's def not enough to make a final decsion ! ...Oh, and I'm going to get flamed for this, but back to the subliminal genetic aspect. I'm 5'1 and have always preferred tall men, at least 5'10. Probably so my midget children wouldn't get eaten as easily by saber tooth tigers !
Perry Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Long, straight, shiney black hair. Like an Indian. BOINK! Is there a "boinking" emote here?
Isolde Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Ahh Isolde! You, me and my friend Anne are now official members of the Ginger Boy Fan Club. :-D :love: Blondes are nice too, but gingers just embody that boyish, mischievous, sexy look.
spookie Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 I too am almost exclusively attracted to guys with dark hair, though when I was younger (middle school) I liked blonde boys. I think I made a switch when I started dating my ex when I was 18, and I haven't been able to go back. I think proportionally more light-haired guys like me. At least, that's how it seems. I've never been attracted to a red-head. I have green eyes and light brown hair.
underpants Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I find myself becoming more and more attracted to gray hair and interesting patterns of balding. Distinguished wings that highlight a strong jaw. A 5 head that shows off that frontal lobe. Or the sweet spot of enlightenment on that aged fontanelle that lets me know you are still a child at heart. Anderson Cooper and Richard Wolffe are appealing to me. Sadly, they might be dating each other? ...and who doesn't want to be swept away by Mr. Clean?
Tomcat33 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Unequivocally I have always been with men that have dark thick hair and hazel or green eyes. I am stupidly attracted to that and I crave nothing else unfortunately, which makes my quest rather hard but not impossible.
Isolde Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Guys with brown or black hair remind me too much of me or my dad unless they have completely different facial features.
Confusedalways Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I loveee a brunette man with blue or green eyes Not sure why, I think I generally equate blonde haired men with being more immature (don't know why) and I have soo long wanted green or blue eyes for myself I want to give my future kids a chance Plus, I can look in the mirror and see brown eyes whenever I want. I need a change of scenery when I'm gazing into someone else's eyes.
Author You'reasian Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 Guys with brown or black hair remind me too much of me or my dad unless they have completely different facial features. I can't possibly remind any woman of their dad....lol
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