tomwiz Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 My gf and I had been doing well recently, but the spark wasn't there any longer. Our sex life and intimacy was replaced with tradition and routine. I love her with all my heart and i'm pretty sure she does me as well. So for NYE, I decided to treat her to a nice night. Fancy dinner, nice hotel downtown. We had a great night, got dressed up and had alot of fun. We had the best sex we've had in a long time and just generally enjoyed eachothers company. This was sort of a revelation to me, you get in a relationship what you put in to it. Just one simple night made me realize why i fell in love with her all over again. Thoghts?
carhill Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 My wife had inspired sex with me the day I gave her money to buy a house Take away whatever meaning you want.... OK, maybe I'm just a jaded old fart....try this....fix her a nice candlelit dinner at home and give her a footbath and get back to me. Maybe you'll un-jade me
LostNLonely Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Yes, you can only get out of it what you put into it. Need motivation so as to never take your GF for granted or dislodge yourselves from a stale routine? Go through the break-up posts & coping stories... I wish I had seen my soul mate leaving me...I would have done anything to stop her... Hang on loosely, but don't let go!
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