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I was making it real. That is how guys think when presented with women. the OP put herself into that category.

keeping it real, eh!!!

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Oh but then again, women in Victorian times lived with their parents until they were given out to marriage, so looks like D-Lish is more Victorian than she claims, lol.

Maybe you should try making a play for the married ones like the OP, as CarHill uncovered, you might have better luck with the men. Just a tip, D-Lish!

that was low, dude

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Ladybuggs bumped this up, so I will give it my opinion.

 

I went back and read all of OP's threads, and I would have to say that making out in bed with a co-worker, especially with other people in the room, was a bad idea, and something she should probably refrain from in the future. She has posted as Carhill pointed out that she would like to have an affair with her married boss, and she seems to have pretty low self-esteem, esp at how she is perceived by others at work.

 

How we are seen by others is a major part of how we perceive ourselves, and trying too hard to be someone who is sought after or desired (esp if you are then rejected) can rebound into making you feel much worse about yourself.

 

I happen to agree with the reputation at work thing (I read the arguments about that through the quotes from oregan beaver); I think that most people are best served by keeping their minds on their jobs instead of on their cubicle mate's behind!

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He hasn't replied and he usually does really quickly. Is this guy no longer interested in me or he likes me but is confused?

 

He wants sex. You're a virgin who won't put out. Why do you want a second date? Why would he want one?

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