calculus Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Well I sign into facebook after not logging into it for 2-3 weeks after I broke up with my ex. Before that I added a friend whom I haven't hung out with in a long time because of "differences" who started his own facebook page. Now I see he added my ex as a friend (whom I've never introduced before) and she has written on his wall "had a nice conversation" then a couple of days later, "happy holidays". Well I called up this friend to hang out and take my mind off of my ex, I told him about how I just broke up and who I dated. He just so happened to like those types of girls and he was already asking me for her number. I was thinking to myself, you have to go be f'ing me... I haven't seen you in awhile and you ask for my ex's phone number? Argh. And then she IM's me saying that "do you still want to be friends? i have this feeling". Then I go into i'm over the oddness between us. Then she responded to that "well i still can't get over the hurt you did to me... i don't think i can"... I just said in response, well it's a new year, i don't want to start out with any negative, if you don't want to be friends, that's fine. then she said ok. I was all full of positive energy just after the new years and then this... this energy draining crap I had to read. And should I even give a crap? Not really, but it's still annoying me..... Makes me want to confront him and ask him whether or not I can get his ex's number and if she has a facebook account so I can have a good conversation with her too, but I know I'm better than that. That's so childish, but yet this annoys me. And I don't know why my ex can't get over that hurt. I've apologized many times, told her I would change, told her that I was sorry for making her feel like **** that one time, cried many times and apologized. And even wrote her an apology letter (to which a good friend of mine said I shouldn't have even bothered writing that at this point). Funny thing is I always gave her an out of the relationship, but she said she wanted both of us to work things out. I don't get people or women for that matter sometimes. argh.
Surfer Dude Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Your ex is clearly not over you. My ex is the same, she dumped me and yet doesn't wanna leave my life no matter how many times I told her I don't wanna be friends. They are this type of girls, who can be in love with several guys, still grieve exs and date someone new. They are totally emotionally messed up. As for your "friend", I would kick that idiot out of my life instantly. To use Emperor's words, they are scum and vermin.
Author calculus Posted January 1, 2009 Author Posted January 1, 2009 Yeah. He was one of the few friends I could've called to hang out at night. Whatever. There's plenty of fish in the sea, so to speak, in terms of friends also.
EmperorR Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Your ex is clearly not over you. My ex is the same, she dumped me and yet doesn't wanna leave my life no matter how many times I told her I don't wanna be friends. They are this type of girls, who can be in love with several guys, still grieve exs and date someone new. They are totally emotionally messed up. As for your "friend", I would kick that idiot out of my life instantly. To use Emperor's words, they are scum and vermin. Couldn't have said it better myself. Real friends don't treat you like that, if I ever found out one of my friends was talking to my ex I would cut all contact with them and never speak to them again.
GodofNietzsche Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 When I left to go abroad, three of my "friends" were hitting on my ex within a month. Good thing she thought nothing of them.
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