She called me last night to talk about "us" and she started crying...whats going on?

[Brady_to_Moss]

She called me last night to say she doesnt know where she wants to go in life and shes just not ready for a relationship. I knew this earlier and was ready to move on. She told me how much she cared for me yet it wasnt fair to me to have me waiting for when she is ready and shes right. Then she started to cry about her past relationships and i listend and i felt so bad. Why are guys such dicks when it comes to girls? I am a guy but i would NEVER do anything to a girl like her past BF's have done to her.

[movingonandon]

So what did they do to her?

[EYECANDY000]

It sounds like just what you said, she's not ready for a relationship! And it sounds like she was ready to break if off with you.

[Brady_to_Moss]

She was cheated on twice and her last BF controlled her to the extreme. She basically hates guys but likes me. Yea i know things wont work out.

[fishtaco]

It's just part of relationships. Some guys are dicks and some women are bitches. Once the damage is done it usually continues to disrupt that person's future relationships. Everyone of us is affected by something like this to a certain degree.

 

So sure, listen and feel bad for her, give her some platonic friendship support if you wish. But at the same time, move on.

 

IMHO never be the knight in shining armor rushing in to rescue women. That's a really bad way to start a romantic relationship.