The Gypsy Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 So a lil background... I just posted "1 year strong, now all gone" we were together for a year and no problems what so ever. everything was good and she broke it off saying that she didn't think we were right for each other. That was the 27th. I was supposed to go out that night with her for her birthday party and decided not to go. After all, she just tossed me to the curb. She shows up to her friends house and is ready to head out when all of her friends ask he where is your bf? Oh, i broke up with him tonight... All of her friends are like, WTF did you do that for? Basically i've recieved this info from her best friend whom i was friends with before i started dating her. The next day, the 28th was her birthday. She called, I didn't answer or call back. Later that night i texted Happy Birthday. Thats it.... I haven't heard from her since. So this is where it gets good... We went in on a hotel party package for the new years with her best friend and her bf. My now ex didn't think it was a good idea for us to spend New years together. So she offered to try and sell my portion of the ticket off to another girlfriend of hers. All my friends are still going to the party and I don't really want to let her have her way this night. Im still going. I just will be going down with my friends and coming home. she will be down there with her friends. We have many mutual friends. Her best friend told me that basically everyone is in "my corner" becasue of the way she went about the break up and her timing for everything. I know that it is better to end things early if one feels its not working out. But I just wish she would have done it earlier or gave me some type of warning for this... I guess what im getting to is how should i react when i see her at the party? I'm planning on not coming up to her or talking about the break up at all. Im just going to be hanging out with my friends. I will compliment her if she comes up to me and say have a good night, and then go badck to my business. These are my plans anyway. I guess i'll just have to roll with it while it happens. I feel that just having this plan will help me be ready for tonight and not look like an idiot. Thoughts?
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 My thoughts? Go somewhere else with friends.
Author The Gypsy Posted December 31, 2008 Author Posted December 31, 2008 I would totally do that... THe only thing is my friends are all going here.. They work for the company that is putting on the party... so.... i guess i'll just make the best of it..
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