me101 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Hi , my girl for over 7 years and I broke up 4 1/2 months ago. We talked a few times in the first week , but then I found out she was seeing some one else. I went NC and stayed that way for three months. In that time she emailed me wanting some stuff from my place. So I arranged a time for her to come by when I would not be home. She never showed or at least if she did she did not take her stuff. We had been apart for about three months and I broke NC and sent an email asking if we could talk. She replied with No and told me not to contact her again. So I have not , but about two weeks ago her best friend called me and asked how I was and told me that she hated that my ex and I were not togather. This would be understandable if this girl liked me but she dose not. In fact I see her on a regular basis and she never speaks to me. However I told her that I was happy and I hoped my ex was as well. After that my Ex has made it a point to be seen with her new bf. I have not given her a reaction at all. I think she put her friend up to calling but I cant be sure. I would just like to know what she is trying to do, hurt me or see if I still care. Thanks.
Geishawhelk Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Dn't try to second-guess her. You never will. Just go on with your life, move on, and - *all together now - in Chorus:* NO CONTACT!!
MWH Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Two-part harmony now: NO CONTACT!! Wanna drive yourself nuts? Keep tring to figure her out. Time to cut your losses and figure YOU out. Peace, MWH
BackonTrack2 Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 sound like two girls having random fun at your expense. your ex has no heart and why allow her to use her friend to check in on you? Go NC from that whole circle, heal yourself and keep moving.
MalachiX Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Two-part harmony now: NO CONTACT!! I think LS should commission some kind of Beach Boy's style recording along the lines of "Good Vibrations." A catchy No Contact song would increase traffic. Anyway, the relationship is over so it's really not worth your energy trying to guess your EX's motives for things. It's hard enough to figure a woman out when you're dating. Don't try to do it when you havn't talked for three months.
Surfer Dude Posted January 1, 2009 Posted January 1, 2009 Just tell both her and her friend to f*ck off. You have no business talking to them and trying to figure out their insane minds, unless you want to become insane yourself.
You'reasian Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Just tell both her and her friend to f*ck off. You have no business talking to them and trying to figure out their insane minds, unless you want to become insane yourself. ......:lmao:
Surfer Dude Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 ......:lmao: Honestly, this is how I deal with ex's. But they never get it, no matter how rude you are and how many times you tell them to get out of your life.
Geishawhelk Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I think LS should commission some kind of Beach Boy's style recording along the lines of "Good Vibrations." A catchy No Contact song would increase traffic. "I'm thinking of going no contact, It's leading to ma-king a pact... Go, go go, go 'no contact!' Doop doop!"
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