surviving you Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 alrighty so my best friend is in a relationship where he has to hide the fact that he hangs with his friends, his GF is manipulative , psycho , and guilts him into staying, she is always downtalking to him , she even texts me ( mind you i dont know her ) telling me that Im whats causing all their problems , she cries on the phone when he doesnt want to talk , she threatens to throw out his **** , ect ect ect he does not want to be with her, he cares about her, but doesnt wanna be with her, he is afraid if he breaks it off she will kill herself or do something drastic to make matter worse , his GF contacted my ex , and now they are best friends , and my ex after no contact for almost 3 months texts me to tell me how much of an ass I am so now he is dealing with 2 off the edge females just out of curiosity as a friend what should I be doing ? am I wong in getting involved?
Ratherunique Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Damn...I wish I had a girlfriend like you best friend who cared.....It is annoying when your going through it, but damn I miss it....
Riffmeister General Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 alrighty so my best friend is in a relationship where he has to hide the fact that he hangs with his friends, his GF is manipulative , psycho , and guilts him into staying, she is always downtalking to him , she even texts me ( mind you i dont know her ) telling me that Im whats causing all their problems , she cries on the phone when he doesnt want to talk , she threatens to throw out his **** , ect ect ect he does not want to be with her, he cares about her, but doesnt wanna be with her, he is afraid if he breaks it off she will kill herself or do something drastic to make matter worse , his GF contacted my ex , and now they are best friends , and my ex after no contact for almost 3 months texts me to tell me how much of an ass I am so now he is dealing with 2 off the edge females just out of curiosity as a friend what should I be doing ? am I wong in getting involved? Simple answer, if he doesn't want to be with her, he should end it NOW. Putting it off just complicates the situation. Tell him that. You should be there to support him, and it sounds like you're not the one dragging yourself into the situation, she is. She'll hurt, yeah, but she's got a support group, and we look forward to meeting her in this very forum soon...
Author surviving you Posted December 30, 2008 Author Posted December 30, 2008 yea thats what I have been telling him im also really sickened by my ex contacting me his GF and my ex have never been friends and magically now became friends I texted her back and told her " dont ever text this number again : hate , anger, spite and bitterness are not anything im interested in , i sincerly wish you a good and happy life and bear no ill will against you , just leave me alone" that should get the message across so much drama , do they thrive off of it ? the only reason she contacted my ex was to keep tabs on him to find out if he was hanging out with people behind her back cause unfortunately my ex is still friends with all my friends , im lucky that I never have to see her though he is over there right now , he says he is going to try breaking it off , I think the hook is too far down his throat , he wont pull the trigger I cant believe the nerve of her to get involved in this ****, I almost feel like she is doing it out of spite to ruin things between me and my best friend, we both chose crazy ones I guess
Sexy Kitty Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 If he is that unhappy with her he should end it. I was with someone for 6 years and was not happy for the last year or so. I was scared to leave for fear of being on my own amoung other things. He was like my best friend and we were always together. Even though it hurt him I knew I needed to move on and am glad I did.
Author surviving you Posted December 31, 2008 Author Posted December 31, 2008 he ended it , she went psychotic though and started like hitting him , apparantly as he was leaving she got into his truck he had to carry her out and she bit him in the process, he bit her back to get her off him she called the cops and he has court now how are people that crazy?
Citizen Erased Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 Oh dear...well I guess at least he only bit her...
lofi_tokyo Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 he ended it , she went psychotic though and started like hitting him , apparantly as he was leaving she got into his truck he had to carry her out and she bit him in the process, he bit her back to get her off him she called the cops and he has court now how are people that crazy? Is it weird that I laughed at that? She BIT him?! What the hell? Somedays I feel like I'm crazy in relationships - I love being in love and try my best to not loose the feeling - which generally leads to clingyness when I feel like I'm losing the one I'm attracted to... but the most I've ever done is complained about feeling left out. That girl... good thing your friend left him, she is NUTS!
lovingalways Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 he ended it , she went psychotic though and started like hitting him , apparantly as he was leaving she got into his truck he had to carry her out and she bit him in the process, he bit her back to get her off him she called the cops and he has court now how are people that crazy? Whoa! Talk about being a psycho! I never understood these kinds of things. Ok, she bit him... but what did she get out of it? God, I hate drama so much, you have no idea. I have known many girls who were like that... ie my best friend's gf who doesn't let him see me because she is jealous of me (mind you, she never met me). I don't like people who feel like they need to cut you off from your friends. Ultimately, when the whole relationship breaks down, who is going to be there for you? Your friends. So no matter what, don't EVER let someone step between you and your friend, because they're not worth it. In your case, I would stand up for our friendship. I'm glad that he broke up with her, even though she's taking him to court. What a psycho!!!! Pffft
Sexy Kitty Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 She bit him? Oh man, well atleast he ended it. Sucks he has to go to court now though.
You'reasian Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 just out of curiosity as a friend what should I be doing ? am I wong in getting involved? Someting wong indeed. Well seeing as you are the level headed female in the trio, make yourself available if he asks for your help but otherwise stay back.
Recommended Posts