music3000 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 we really haven't spoken for about a month now, other then when I broke NC to tell him how I felt about us (even though I really don't feel too bad about that I apologized for everything I did while we were together)..it didn't turn out the way it should have tho bc he's an *******. but I don't regret doing it. we've been broken up for like almost 5 mths now but we were still talking like everyday since then even becoming closer. so 2 days after christmas he sends me a msg saying merry christmas and he hope mine was good. I knew that was a bs msg that meant something else. I wasn't gonna respond but I didn't see the harm in that. basically I was very regular he was trying to strike up a convo even complimenting my pic and stuff but I just gave him one worded responses...very informal and I ignored the compliment. I probably said a total of 7 words to him... and even 7 was prob too much. idk what he's trying to pull tho seems like he couldn't take not talking to me. ill talk when he wants to say something important but blah he prob won't do it. I think he's gonna try something else but we'll see. guess he thought I would get in touch with him for the holidays and his bday but I didn't. basically I just want to move on but its hard. he plays with my feelings like im disposable but when I leave him alone he comes back. I wish it could be worked out but it can't and I can't be with someone like him.
Geishawhelk Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 .....basically I just want to move on but its hard. he plays with my feelings like im disposable but when I leave him alone he comes back. I wish it could be worked out but it can't and I can't be with someone like him. That's what NC is all about. It's complete No Contact, not 'some contact because he started it." It's only hard because you're not sticking to the rules. Stuff him, let him do what he likes. You go NC and mean NC. Don't rise to the bait, or dangle on his string. He's yanking your chain because you've let him grip the other end. If he 'plays with your feelings' then it's because he knows he can. So show him - very plainly, very clearly - that he can't. Go NC and let him 'come back' all he wants. Be determined that he'll get no joy from you......
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