le-arc Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Hi I'm new here but have been viewing the forums due to a somewhat recent breakup last month. The background of the story is that I had been with my (ex) boyfriend for 11 months. It would have been a year if he hadn't broken up in mid November. What my main concern was about these comments on facebook/myspace. What does it all mean? Lately he had been commenting only to my pictures on facebook (last week to this week) saying: "Nice dress <3" "Cute" "When did you take this? Looks nice" But he never took the initiative to call me/text me since that call on the 17th. The thing is, I'm not sure if I should over look it... but why is he writing these things? And in myspace, he made a comment about a blog I wrote (about my career) and he said that he wish he could help me but can't and called me my pet name... which was reeeally odd... Whenever he is serious (as in mad and angry, breaking up) he calls me by my name. I don't think people call their exes their pet names... and it wasn't the typical 'baby' 'babe'. It was a personal one... so I'm not sure what it means. Does it mean he still DOES want to be with me... Why does he comment my pictures only? (I can tell by the newsfeed) Am I supposed to take the initiative to call him back? I just wrote thank you whenever he writes me a compliment. Well hope I didn't bore you!!! I just needed help in interpreting why a man (or a person anyway) would ever write these things... I really love him and miss him. I want to tell him how I feel but I can't until he wants me back... well I don't know how to go about it. The pain is lessoning and I know to stop being so insecure about other girls flirting with him. I learned my lesson about my own faults and yes, his own faults. I at least want to know if he will ever come back to me. I don't know when we do hang out, should I tell him how I feel or will it scare him off? Thanks if anyone can help!!!
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