paperchase Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 What if you broke NC and had sex? Can you go NC or limited NC thereafter? I mean what do you do if you get a text saying it was really nice to see you on your way home after making love? Assume after the sex, there was no discussion about the relationship. Assume your ex is still confused and probably more confused after comming a few times. Finally, assume we are talking about a buddy of mine and his x girl.
Nemo Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Did you actually say anything to each other, or just grunt and scream a lot? You may not have actually violated the NC, if only bodily fluids were exchanged.
birdie Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 haha Nemo you are very much to the point as usual. as to the OP, I think after sex there needs to be some discussion before going NC. it's really hurtful to just ignore someone afterwards
Geishawhelk Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 "Limited NC" is like being "a little bit pregnant." It's either NC or it isn't. If it's LC it just prolongs the agony......
4by4 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 My friend asked his ex to sleep together one last time before breaking off all contact. She agreed and they got hot and steamy in her bed one last time, neither of them spoke to each other ever again. It depends on the situation but clearly there are situations where sex is all that was.
BoerumHill Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Finally, assume we are talking about a buddy of mine and his x girl. Tell you buddy to man up and post for himself.
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