Helioz Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 My gf and i broke up 3 wks ago after an argument we had in which she came out hurt the most. The day after the argument she called me and i explained all of my feelings but she was unwilling to compromise and said that the relationship was too much for her and that i had hurt her really bad. Honestly, the relationship had its typical up and downs, i never thought it was that bad. But i guess the argument broke the camels back. So... even if it was i that supposedly messed up by telling her these things. Should i be the one to break the silence if i have hopes of reconciliation? I just fear that by me going NC that shell think that i am being too proud to call her to apologize. BTW, she sent me a merry xmas text saying that she hopes my family and i have a good time and that she says hi to my parents. Should i take this as if the lines of communication are open or what. Ive maintained NC since the break up except for a mery xmas back to her. Also, a couple days after the break up, i saw her at the uni and she completely ignored me even though i looked directly at her so to receive that Christmas text was a complete surprise.
UnamedSeven Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 Alright well, your looking for another chance, correct?. Its just so that i can get a better picture of this. Ok, if you have the hopes of reconciliation, there isn't much that can be done. After that fight that you and her had, i really did make things go all the way down. You may have hurt her so much, to the point of there never being another chance between the two of you. If this is the case, nothing can be done. However, if you are still friends with her, there is hope for a redemption. By starting to build a new friendship with her, the Past to her, may be overlooked. Thus there can be something of an advanced friendship that may occur. And, no you aren't the only one thats supposed to break No Contact. The people who break no contact, are the true people who are willing to give their time to the people they love.
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