Nagini Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 people lie about their age in western society. they have to. look at all of you judging people on a stupid number. arbitrary after age 21.
BentSpine Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 That's so wrong...it's one thing to lie about age when you 1st meet because you may just be trying to impress...but to let the lie go on is just so wrong! If I date this guy, I won't rest until I see his I.D.!!It won't work, because you're too hung up on the age thing. He can be a perfect gentleman, but you don't recognise any of that because all you think of is the age part. You hold his high interest against him. The upside of that is in my mind is that if he really likes you, he will really want to protect you. Not trying to make you decide one way or the other but this can be an experience for you how it is to be treated well. Right now you're driven by fear: is this and that a sign that something uncomfortable will happen in the future? Ask yourself, isn't it true that there are no guarantees even if you would meet someone of a similar age?
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