knowledge1222 Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 So I have been in a relatioship with this man since I was 14, now I am 31. We live together and have 3 kids. I thought we were happy but I guess it was just me. About a year ago he cheated I was devistated but decided for the sake of the children and for the sake of y finishing my education I would stay with him and see if he has changed....big mistake! Now just as I was thinking we were doing great I found out he has been seeing another women. I am done! I put him out yesterday. Now I am lost, all I can do is cry. I live in a state where we relocated after Katrina, I have no friends here or family to turn to.I can not afford to pay the bills on my own and definately can not continue to work part time and go to school part time. I really hate to quit school when I graduate in May. I am sooooo lost, and then to top it all off he keeps coming by...I want him to see the kids but how can I move on if he is always sitting here? How can I tell him to stay away when he has his stuff here still and has not found a place to really stay at to take it yet? I am going crazy and have no idea what to do from here.
Geishawhelk Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Contact your family about moving closer to them. get mainenance and support from him, legally. Arrange a place and time for him to visit the kids, without your being there. I'm just firing off suggestions to let you see there are possible ways of dealing with this. But get the Law to work for you girl.
Author knowledge1222 Posted December 29, 2008 Author Posted December 29, 2008 I have considered moving closer to family but I have no money and they have no room for me and three kids to move in with them. I ould aslo have to quit school and take my kids out of their schools and change thier lives around. I just want to keep their lives stable until they adjust to this change before moving.
Geishawhelk Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 OK so strike one. What about the other two? You have to do something!
Author knowledge1222 Posted December 29, 2008 Author Posted December 29, 2008 I can talk to him about arranging times for him to see the kids, I agree this would be better. I will see what steps I need to take to get child sapport. In the mean time I am on a winter break from school and not working. What can I do besides sit here and think about my life, I feel like I am sitting here with my kids fighting back my tears all day. I have no money to do anything right now....bit I am going crazy. I know I can no longer be with him but I keep catching myself waiting on him to stop by. I do not want to be like this.
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