Lonelystar Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 I am so confused, so I decided to write here and see if anyone could offer me some advice. Well, when I was with my ex I was looking for jobs in his area. I planned to move there, and we were going to get married and all that wonderful stuff. However, since we are no longer together, I moved back to my hometown. I got an e-mail today saying that one of the schools I applied to is looking for a science teacher, and that they would love to have me. This school pays well, and the subject I would teach is in my field. In California, due to the economic woes, and me being a recent graduate, I have not found a job. I am not sure if I should take this job offer, or just forget about it. The job itself would be 5minutes from where my ex lives, and I guess I would be moving really close to him. I could move and not tell him, but I know for a fact we would run into each other. It is a small town, and I don't know how long I could hide. I had asked him before what I should do if a situation like this arises, and he said I should move for the job, and that when I did, we should "hang out". I by no means want to "hang out", but I am totally lost. I hope this post made some sense. So, I guess the big question is...should I move or just keep looking for a job here. I have student loans I need to pay back, and other "bills", but do I risk my healing process.
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