Xecoxity Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Hi am 20 years old a very nice but shy guy I did have one relationship but ended about 7 months ago, anyways I have a baby Face and makes me look like am just 16 or 17 Its what everyone tells me the lowest I got was 12 T_T now I never really been confident with girls because I always have this in mind do you think its an advantage or disadvantage?? Do girls Find this attractive? or just weird a 16 year old looking guy is talking to them?
moonshadow Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Hi am 20 years old a very nice but shy guy I did have one relationship but ended about 7 months ago, anyways I have a baby Face and makes me look like am just 16 or 17 Its what everyone tells me the lowest I got was 12 T_T now I never really been confident with girls because I always have this in mind do you think its an advantage or disadvantage?? Do girls Find this attractive? or just weird a 16 year old looking guy is talking to them? Everyone's taste is different. While some may think you have a baby face there will surely be other women who don't think so at all. A lot of girls like the look of a guy who looks "nice and decent" which someone with a baby face might resemble. And I now this won't be much of a consolation now but when you're a little older you'll be thanking your lucky stars that you look younger than your age; for a lot of women if they have to choose between, say, a 35 yr old who looks old and one who looks younger, they'll choose the latter any day of the week. The most important thing you can do to attract women is be a good person, be a good listener, be a good friend, be supportive, show compassion, treat people with respect............a man with these qualities will stand out far above the rest.
Author Xecoxity Posted December 29, 2008 Author Posted December 29, 2008 I do have those qualities and your right I do think when am older it will be great for me but I guess it just really hurts my self esteem when trying to talk with girls my age. I dont look bad at all and dress very nice but it, Suxs when your asked for your ID just to watch a rated R movie but my friends dont get asked about it at all.
kashmir Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Every girl is different and thus every one has different tastes. I'm the opposite of you - I'm 19 and people tell me I look like I'm in my mid-20's. Lots of girls I've met preferred the cute baby-face guys over me. This is why your face really shouldn't make a difference, because no matter what it looks like you'll have a relatively similar amount of girls into you. You just need to work with what you got and accept the face that some girls just won't be into you while others will.
lovestruck818 Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 I'm a 27-year-old female with a baby-face as well. I find that from a standpoint of getting men, most of the time they like it...but it becomes very difficult in the corporate world. I have to work harder to prove myself to people.
Author Xecoxity Posted December 29, 2008 Author Posted December 29, 2008 lovestruck818, I also have the same problem at times i find myself having to prove even more that I am 20 by being mature and showing intellect. Its nice to know someone knows how its like, whats your opinion on dating someone with a baby face? just curious on a womans point of view.
lovestruck818 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 lovestruck818, I also have the same problem at times i find myself having to prove even more that I am 20 by being mature and showing intellect. Its nice to know someone knows how its like, whats your opinion on dating someone with a baby face? just curious on a womans point of view. Well, I only date men who look like supermodels...so no baby face boyfriends for me. I'm kind of shallow...oh well. Sorry.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 I guess it is true. When a person is young, they want to appear older. And when a person gets older they want to appear younger.
You'reasian Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 I do have those qualities and your right I do think when am older it will be great for me but I guess it just really hurts my self esteem when trying to talk with girls my age. I dont look bad at all and dress very nice but it, Suxs when your asked for your ID just to watch a rated R movie but my friends dont get asked about it at all. LOL I would go with it, play on your youthful appearance and use it to your advantage.
monkey00 Posted December 30, 2008 Posted December 30, 2008 I think there's a pitfall to both. You're probably better off looking your age. In this day and age, age gets you respect (even if it's assumed how old you are). If you look older than you age, you're probably more likely to attract women who are into older men. Whereas if you look younger than your age, you're more likely to attract women who are into younger guys. That's the way it goes, life isn't always fair.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 31, 2008 Posted December 31, 2008 I was at the spa today and the lady there said I have a baby face. I don't know whether to be offended or not. But I do notice a lot of guys find me cute. I guess it's a good thing for girls because looking younger does appeal to older men.
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