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Screwed over so many times, but still obsessed about love.


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Please help me. I have a serious problem, and I don't know what to do. For those of you familiar with LS members, I remind myself a lot of Spookie. :D

 

I am obsessed when it comes to love and relationships. I just found out some info about my crush that has basically crushed me, and now I am so upset. It's all that I can think about, and its pathetic. I am so disappointed about what I thought could have been, that I know now will never be.

 

I know its not normal, but I have always been this way.

 

I don't know how to stop my thoughts, and my anxiety about relationships, or basically the lack of relationships in my life. :mad:

 

I have been screwed over so many times in love, that you would think that I was done with trying, but I just can't stop.

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I just found out some info about my crush that has basically crushed me, and now I am so upset.

I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling down. It's a sad reality that there's only one johan, yet so many of us. If we do the math, it's easy to see why there are going to be any number of people in a perpetual state of extreme disappointment.

 

Distractions may help. Spoil yourself for the next few days at least, and try to do something new that you have always put off for one reason or another.

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Sorry to hear that. I am too, tired of trying to get into a relation with a girl I like at work. But I am also not giving up just yet....:confused: I have been trying for some time now...I am more disappointed in myself not able to make the move rather than have a relationship with her really.. O sorry, this about you, not me. Heh, got a bit carry away.

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Sorry to hear that. I am too, tired of trying to get into a relation with a girl I like at work. But I am also not giving up just yet....:confused: I have been trying for some time now...I am more disappointed in myself not able to make the move rather than have a relationship with her really.. O sorry, this about you, not me. Heh, got a bit carry away.

 

Yeah, its okay. Nice to know I am not alone in this feeling in some weird way. I tried PMing you, but I guess you don't have that feature yet since you are a new member.

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Spoil yourself for the next few days at least, and try to do something new that you have always put off for one reason or another.

 

This is exactly what I have thought about doing. I just feel so down right now and I am sick of it.

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CG usually when this happens to me, I place myself in a situation where I fall for someone else.

 

This can be better distraction if you're in love with being in love. Consider it a semi rebound.

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