dark1san Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 Not marriage, I'm thinking of asking my g/f to move in with me, is this a bad thing? I know it'd help us both "in the long run" financially, and she's already "hinted" about certain things that makes it sound like she would guess my concern is should I persue this? Or just not even think about it? I honestly would love for her to move in with me.
Geishawhelk Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 How long have you been going out together?
moonshadow Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 Kind of hard for us to give you feedback, without knowing more of the details.........like your respective ages? how long have you been together? do both of you have stable careers? Living together for 'financial reasons' is a really poor reason for wanting to live together. Is she someone you could SERIOUSLY see marrying and spending your life with or is just someone who's "good for now"? If you don't see her as true potential marriage material and you don't hope to have a real life and future with her, don't waste her time by asking her to move in because all you'll be doing is leading her on and wasting her time, seriously.
Author dark1san Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 We've been together for a while, I'm 30 she's 25, I've been at my job for 7 years now and don't see moving on or quitting,and she's a teacher. I could see marrying her someday, we compliment one another pretty well, think the only thing we'd have to do is introduce our animals to one another, hers love me, and mine love her, so that'd be the one obstacle, but we're both animal lovers so that works out also, she has her own friends as do I so we wouldn't be smothering one another like some couples do. Think that's why my last relationship failed,my ex had no friends of her own and really wan't family oriented so she didn't understand the whole me being a family guy and having friends thing.
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