Soaked Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 does she know about the six year long affair and he tells you about it like he likes having two women agonize over him! No, i don't believe she does, she knows about us up to one point, about 3 years ago. Yeah... I think you are right that maybe he does enjoy know to have 2 women agonize over him, but I think for now, I need to shift my focus back to myself. in a way, I do feel extremely shame about our relationship, and I agree with you, knowing about what I know is sicking me! From what I read on this board, I think I should just move on and not to draw in more drama (I call it "this kind of crap") in my life.
GreenEyedLady Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 It's interesting how affair partners struggle to define commitment especially give the hoops that they have to jump through to be together. I find it funny that, have violated the structure of their marriage(s) to be together, they often assume that their new relationship (in terms of fidelity, transparency, etc.) will have the structure of a....marriage! Doesn't make sense to me... Mr. Lucky Sometimes there is struggle at all. That's called compatibility. When you're on the same page.
GreenEyedLady Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 OP: I think you have to define your boundaries, and then enforce them. You don't want to be with someone who does not share your views. If deception is a dealbreaker tell her that and follow through. She won't take you seriously unless you make her.
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