If you like a girl and so do other guys..do you fight for her or just let her decide?

[Brady_to_Moss]

It WILL happen for both of you guys. It's just a matter of time with finding the girl who will want to meet your needs/one where you will want to meet her needs, and be together with YOU only.

 

I know it will and until then i will just have to wait.

[tidalwave]

Tidalwave....what you're supporting is a lot like what married couples call "swinging", except more globally, extending interest beyond the sexual and casual. With like-minded people, like with swinging, it can be and is healthy for those involved. You apparently have found this to be true for yourself. Do you feel the OP is looking for a similar path? Why?

 

 

i do not support swinging... well, actually i am in favor of whatever makes people happy. i am just saying you shouldnt limit yourself based on society's rules and laws. you shouldnt have to chase anyone around for anything.

[carhill]

OP, in support of that response, I would suggest doing what makes *you* feel good about yourself. IME, when you meet the right person, doing those things and being that way will become a mutually satisfying path. Until then, well, date someone else. Doing so will expose you to many potentials in the quest for that 'right person'