calculus Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 Well I've been reading through a lot of posts here and while my relationship only lasted a little bit less than 3 months, I felt really close to this girl before she decided to break-up. I really let my feelings out to her and that in turn made me feel vulnerable, but at the same time I felt very comfortable around her. It's almost coming up on a month since my ex broke-up with me, but she's still on my mind even though I do activities that distract me just enough to take my mind off of her temporarily. Sometimes I'm sad because I think about the good moments we shared, but other times I get mad at the fact that she tried to rebound almost after we broke up. It's just so draining on my especially since I'm in the middle of a vacation right now. It's like one moment I feel like, yes I have truly have gotten over her and other times I sometimes wish I would get a call, e-mail, text, or whatever saying that she'd like to try again. I've gotten over someone in the past and I'm just trying to remember life as it was before the ex. I mean I was alone at the time, but I was feeling a lot better about myself.
EmperorR Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 3 months isn't that bad you can do it man. That's the good thing you remember how happy you were etc., just got to get to that point.
9Lives Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 it takes time and a lot of support from people who understand what you are going thru. some people have experienced a lot longer relationship and have gotten past it. LS is a blessing . post here and work on your self esteem too. it has taken a hit and needs to be built back up.
Hersheys Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 Well I've been reading through a lot of posts here and while my relationship only lasted a little bit less than 3 months, I felt really close to this girl before she decided to break-up. I really let my feelings out to her and that in turn made me feel vulnerable, but at the same time I felt very comfortable around her. It's almost coming up on a month since my ex broke-up with me, but she's still on my mind even though I do activities that distract me just enough to take my mind off of her temporarily. Sometimes I'm sad because I think about the good moments we shared, but other times I get mad at the fact that she tried to rebound almost after we broke up. It's just so draining on my especially since I'm in the middle of a vacation right now. It's like one moment I feel like, yes I have truly have gotten over her and other times I sometimes wish I would get a call, e-mail, text, or whatever saying that she'd like to try again. I've gotten over someone in the past and I'm just trying to remember life as it was before the ex. I mean I was alone at the time, but I was feeling a lot better about myself. My everyday wish. I keep on going back to those days when I wasn't trying to get over someone. I used to be outgoing and couldn't care less about love, getting over someone and moving on. Life was so easy back then. I keep on hoping that not long from now we will get tired of all these thinking and hurting and just wake up and wonder what we ever saw in our exes that made us do some pretty dumb things.
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