mortensorchid Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 The saga of the Cake Man continues. Right after he dumped me after a few weeks last summer, saying he is so damaged from two mistakes in the past that he can't commit himself to anyone else right now, he started going out with one of my friends. I saw them out together a lot, I would say hello and he was rude and mean to me. On Thanksgiving Day, he showed his true colors to my friend. She decided to end things. Depending on whose version of the story you choose to listen to, things got violent. He BEAT HER AND THREW HER OFF THE PORCH OF THE HOUSE. That was a very sobering moment, realizing it could have been me. So after that was said and done, he started writing me emails through MySpace / Facebook saying that I was accusing him of being a drunken, wife beating bastard but no one wants to hear his side of the story because he isn't the mayor of our town's hipster scene. I decided to take Gandhi's approach of non violence and said "Despite all of this hilarious banter back and forth, you will always had a place in my heart". Don't think I meant it for a minute, but it neutralized him at the very least. He said we were cool. Then, two weeks later, he starts writing me harassing emails again saying that he didn't like the fact that I added a few people he had as friends or joined a group or two through Facebook. I blocked him once and for all. I have a fear that he's crazy, and someday he might actually come after me for some real or imagined slight. Hey, I'm not perfect, maybe I did a bad thing here or there, and if you can't laugh at yourself then you're even stupider than I thought I was, but this tells me how nuts he really is. I was lucky to get out of that, but I fear he's creating more drama as he is stalking my friend (and her new boyfriend).
Geishawhelk Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Someone needs to take control, before he takes advantages of your good natures (read: "weaknesses"). You need to maybe approach his family and show them what he's doing, or just take out a restraining order on him. Preferably both.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 He sounds absolutely wacko. I would keep the police on my speed dial if I were you, if he were to start stalking you around your place of residence.
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