nab0610 Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 OK so my gf is a virgin and i'm not and she's hinted at wanting to have sex but wanting it to be something special (albeit she was drinking the few times its come up lately, all though she is very shy about certain things) this girl is very special to me and i don't want to hurt her or do it at the wrong time i was thinking something along the lines of a nice night out followed up by some candles back at my place. now here is where i'm a little lost as to what to do i've slept with one girl in my life in a LTR so i have a good bit of experience, however she iniated the first time. How do i go about doing that with this girl as I feel she's ready to take that step in our relationship.
movingonandon Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 OK so my gf is a virgin and i'm not and she's hinted at wanting to have sex but wanting it to be something special (albeit she was drinking the few times its come up lately, all though she is very shy about certain things) this girl is very special to me and i don't want to hurt her or do it at the wrong time i was thinking something along the lines of a nice night out followed up by some candles back at my place. now here is where i'm a little lost as to what to do i've slept with one girl in my life in a LTR so i have a good bit of experience, however she iniated the first time. How do i go about doing that with this girl as I feel she's ready to take that step in our relationship. Dude, I understand the whole "special" thing, but IMHO the best you can do is just get over it and give her some good pounding . Basically, I've rarelly heard girls say good things about their "1st time" (at least the actual sex part), plus even if nobody is a virgin the very first time you have sex with somebody, it is either unremarkable, or even suxxx. So, set the mood, with whatever floats her boat (I'd suggest going old school, though, as you're planning, just don't overdo it), and then tear her apart :). Then just don't get out of bed for the next 3 months. C'mon, let's do this, england! PS Going out is fine, but also don't underestimate the power of cooking something for her at your place.
Padthai Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 So, pretty much the first time for a girl always sucks. Atleast for the people I know. It hurts. Don't go all out. Just make a connection. I think the best thing to do is make her feel comfortable and start with making out. Run the bases....That way she will be into it, she will be loosened up and that will help! A lot! When girls are really turned on they get 'more room'. Take it easy too. Not in a lame way. But just make sure she knows she can stop at anytime if she needs to. Make it so she wont be sorry. Just be nice. Making the move should be easy enough though I think. Just do what you usually do and take it a step more.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 The only think I have to say is to be spontaneous. Dont plan on doing it because then it seems.... well.... planned! just go out and have a great time and if it gets to that moment then you two will know when the moment is right..
peacebyinches Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 I took my first love's virginity in the grass at a park at night. I was the only guy with the balls to try or she wouldnt of been a virgin when I had her. Just **** the girl and get it over with.
movingonandon Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 I took my first love's virginity in the grass at a park at night. I was the only guy with the balls to try or she wouldnt of been a virgin when I had her. Just **** the girl and get it over with. That's the spirit, OP take note! Don't get in the way of Mother Nature - just pin the girl down and... ahem... Then, give her 15 seconds to breathlessly contemplate "What the f*** just happened?!??" and go again all nite ! Then cook her breakfast and go again ! And, remember kids - always use condoms !
kashmir Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Hey, if it hurt her too much in the front, then go through the back.
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