Brady_to_Moss Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Well we dont really TALK and dont see eachother so its hard to go any further but we will see! Maybe it will be better when we are back at school. What is your take on this?
Tony T Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 It sounds like she was trying to tell you, in a VERY nice way, that she isn't interested. If she was she would have made all kinds of suggestions on how the relationship (if that's what it is) could progress forward. If you have been making an honest effort to see her, do things with her and communicate with her and she said that despite those efforts, you can kiss her goodbye forever anyway.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 shes saying that he wants you to call more so you two can get to know each other more.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 Whever i call..its always like she doesnt want to talk or i am bothering her so i never call anymore..i always txt her first or IM her first..i can tell she doesnt really like me anymore so iam done with her...she had her chance and its gone..
kashmir Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 You must be feeling pretty crappy man, and I'm sorry, but if I may give one big pointer: Don't. Get. So. Attached. From your many posts about this girl, it sounded like you were in love with her. I mean, it's fine to really be into someone, but only when they reciprocate the same interest. What got you so hooked? Were the make out sessions that good? I doubt it...it just seemed like to wanted her so badly. Really, ask yourself why you got so attached so easily. Once you've identified the reason, make sure you don't fall into the same trap, because I guarantee that's what made her lose interest. Why did you want a relationship so quickly? What was wrong with keeping things as a casual attraction and letting it escalate naturally? If I was in your situation, where I had a girl that was regularly seeing me and making out with me, I would just enjoy what I had and not try to expand it or organize it or overthink it. Look at it for it's face value. Just enjoy the feeling of sweetness from it and don't try to pack it up as some other kind of greater meaning. Next time you're kissing a girl you like right then and there, realize it might happen again in the future or she might walk out your door and never speak to you again, but you could care less because you're just enjoying the moment. Realize that if she stays, then you'll get to enjoy more moments with her, but if she goes, then you'll have the sweet memories to look back to and smile on. Either way, you're happy. Either way, you had the experience and you don't crave or need anything more. You'll accept more, but you're still content without it. Granted, it isn't over with this girl. Just enjoy your break away from her and go back to school as a chill guy with the philosophy I wrote above.
carhill Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Very key bit of advice, noted above.... Enjoy the moment. Life is a series of moments, each unique and singular. OP, I'd suggest taking a break from this woman, women in general and from LS. Go out with some friends and have a good time and forget about romance for now. Try it
Star Gazer Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 It means she's been spending time with someone else, taking her attention away from you. "We'll see" means "we'll see how it goes with the other guy." As for everything else that goes along with that interpretation, I really agree with Kashmir.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 I know i wanted too much to soon and i wish i didnt. I just liked her for a while and when she showed interst i just went with it. I just cant be with someone who doesnt show equal intrest as i do in them and becasue of this it wont work with her. Yea i still like her but oh well...her loss.
Adri Ana Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Well we dont really TALK and dont see eachother so its hard to go any further but we will see! Maybe it will be better when we are back at school. What is your take on this? Some issues are hidden here. Sorry,can`t see the whole picture . Why you do not talk ? When you will be back to school?
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 I am back to school jan 20th but she will be back to school on monday which i only live 20 min away from my school. I asked her to go on a date monday night and 5 days ago she was all excited and now is like well if i am not busy we can go....yea ok...i just cant deal with BS. I asked her today whats wrong and she said nothing...dont believe that for a second.
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