Dexter Morgan Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 Well, it can be done. Still working with him, and now have no desires for him. My marriage is strong. because your husband doesn't know the truth and you continue to lie to him. how strong is a marriage when one partner lies to the other? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mandydarling Posted December 15, 2009 Author Share Posted December 15, 2009 So, please come back and tell us just exactly how your marriage is doing? What steps have the two of you taken on working through all of this? What steps have YOU taken to make your marriage better? What steps have you taken to "affair-proof" your marriage so that this can't happen again? What has CHANGED since March? Well Owl, my marriage is still doing well. We are together, and happy. I am still working at the same place, but have had no contact with the man other than work related talk. My marriage changed a lot over the past year -- namely I have been more forward with recognizing my husbands needs and with communicating my own. To be blunt, our sex life has continued to blossom, and I am the most satisfied I have ever been. Steps to affair proof my marriage? Honestly, having the one encounter has made me realize how absolutely stupid I was for risking my marriage for a few moments of satisfaction. I hope that maybe someone else will read all this and decide that an affair will not be worth it -- because its not. Thanks for asking, Owl. Link to post Share on other sites
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