schirall Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Ok, what's up, I'm Sean. I post on forums sometimes but I think this would be rough because we could all type forever about this topic. I'll be brief, because I would love opinions. PART 1 "The meeting" Quickly, how it started: I had just had my heart shredded for the first time by a cheating girlfriend of 6 years. I was DEVASTED like you would think, I lost a job, the whole nin yards....but what I did is read about being a "pick up artist", of sorts LOL. You know those books, they kind of work, because about 2 months after the devastation from the 6 year girl, who I was stilling trying to work it out with, I met this younger( me=30 her 21) gorgeous girl. We hit it off so fast and actually fell in a love I had NEVER felt in the 6 years with the former, so it was easy to tell the cheating liar to hit the road. I was now in "true love" with this new girl. PART 2 "The relationship" We dated for 2 1/2 years. There was good and bad, mostly good. Of course some fight, some small lies and drama, but no cheating. Things were great. We were in love. About 22 months into it, we had an argument that was fierce enough to send her to SC while I was in FL(where we met and lived). Instantly after we longed to be back together. We visited each other 3 times in those 8 months, the last time was to be me moving up there to live and be with her, however, on the way I got into an accident and broke my leg. I was forced to go back to FL to heal, since I couldn't work(she lived with "mom", "mom" decided me "healing" there was not a good idea.) So, while my leg healed and after, I visited again and we planned to get together again, but the "long distance" was a strain and the phone call became less and you just knew. She saw me once last time for my birthday in FL and when she left, I found out, she had a new boyfriend and ALL the "horrible" things about me came out. Most I was unaware of, but i didn't want to fight, plus she was "lonely" PART 3 After"the main question" I was "devasted", but, I also knew it would come. She was gorgeous and I wasn't there. I think about that car wreck constantly. It's my fault and I hate myself for it, but that I could even live with. But here's the thing: She tortures me. I won't contact for months, then she'll call to be nice and it will end with a story of her great new boy friend. Alway, her calls were 50/50, nice and promising, to brutally wicked, as if she was possessed and wanted to torture me. THE FINAL IDIOT MOVE BY ME I refused to answer her calls, call her(i deleted her # and truely didn't know it) or anything. She starts texting me "Please help me!" "I hate my life", "I'm gonna be on the street" blah, blah ,blah also "I'm sorry" "I wanna cum c u" "I made a mistake, I miss u" I'm so naive, even though I've been with 3 girls briefly + one I'm currently "with" who loves me, I just don't have the love like i do for my ex. My ex,I still love her. So I buy into this fantasy, she gets me for $500, no big deal, well, actually it was, but, I got over the $, then she calls a bit, but the calls get more viscious and back to normal. I knew I was played, now it's "no call", we talked and she just wanted to ridicule me about my football team she told me about getting back with her ex after me and what she would get him. The usual wicked, demon was back even after $500, She's making me crazy because I DO love her, I can't lie, but I COULD get over it, but she know just how to keep enough fuel on that flame!!!!!!!! Sorry so long, but does anyone hear me? lol happy holidays
Dmoney28 Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Bro, this girl is using you. Leave her alone man. You're 30, its not like you are a 21 year old kid , who's never had a GF before. She = Pimp....you = simp. Stop tricking you're money off man. Ignore her..why would you love someone who 1. is back with thier ex, and shows no disire to reconsile......2. who only contacts you for money.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 I agree with dmoney. I'd like to add that this ***** is insane. Are you seriously foolish enough to buy into this? Tell her to swallow some bleach. Send it to her as her christmas present with a note that says "Please swallow this". Owned
Author schirall Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 Bro, this girl is using you. Leave her alone man. You're 30, its not like you are a 21 year old kid , who's never had a GF before. She = Pimp....you = simp. Stop tricking you're money off man. Ignore her..why would you love someone who 1. is back with thier ex, and shows no disire to reconsile......2. who only contacts you for money. of course you're right on most points, I know what's up, yet can't help my feelings, that's the fuccced up thing about this stuff. and it's not like it's looks, my girl now is Better looking, more mature...etc, but i love my ex and a fact correction, she is not back with her ex in the sense that she was with him be4 me, she met him after s 1/2 years with me and about 8 months with him, anyway.....You're right, mainly thanks, both of you. See, OF COURSE it's obvious that's the pain, oh well, I'll live, but yes I would love for her to swallow a whole gallon, bro! lol
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