Mistake1231 Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 I guess I am at the breaking point. Is not having enough time a reason to break up? She does try her best. I just can't handle her coming over and falling asleep. If we fight I am the one upset laying awake at night and she just goes to sleep. We do go out maybe once a month. It is a miracle if I call her and she answers. We do see each other and talk alot, But she is always rushing because she works and goes to school. Please help me out there, am I being selfish. If I am please tell me.
lofi_tokyo Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 If your needs are not being met in a relationship, its alright to talk about them. If you and your ex have tried that - over and over - and are producing no results, it could be that you need to find a new way to tackle things, or maybe just throw in the towel. Sometimes people just aren't compatible. I'm sure if I tried, I could teach myself to love my ex again, but that wouldn't solve our very clear differences in values. We spent three years fighting over them, trying to sort things out! Save yourself some time and tears, and... give it a few more tries maybe, then call it quits.
stillafool Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 I'm trying to figure out what you are complaining about? Is it that you aren't getting enough of her time or the sleeping issue? She is probably dead tired from working and going to school. Is that why you don't want her anymore?
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