Meet 4 Coffee Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 Has he messaged you on FB at all since you requested him to be your friend or has he said anything about you befriending him? He probably does know you're obsessed with him.
Author spookie Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 Has he messaged you on FB at all since you requested him to be your friend or has he said anything about you befriending him? He probably does know you're obsessed with him. He hasn't messaged me but has asked for some personal info in real life, saying he'd searched my FB for it but couldn't find it. He might know I'm obsessed. He might not. I'm pretty professional. I've made enough bad choices in my life to know how not to fcvk up.
Author spookie Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 The point is, though, that I am turning even more leaves in '09, and one of the major ones is going to be not giving a fcvk at all about men. In the last half of this year I've given up my immature habit of pursuing guys I don't even like just for the drama of the chase, which I'm pretty proud of, as it had been a fave hobby of mine all my life; the next step is to give up thinking about this kind of s!ht altogether, even when it concerns people I really genuinely like, or even love. There's just no point in obsession; all it does is waste time and turn people off. So, in '09, rather than spend my evenings having a fantasy relationship with my furniture subbing in for my boss, I'm going to focus even harder on my career, and become an avid rock-climber. Yes. And I'll start watching lots of indie flicks, cause I like them, and it's better to live vicariously through others than through your own bad choices.
Meet 4 Coffee Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 That is a good plan. When you're least looking for it, love finds you. I think if you did end up with this guy, it would be a roller coaster disaster. You would always be on edge waiting for him to call, checking his facebook, and then have to be confronted with him at work if he did not want anything serious, just a one time thing or a fling. It would be much emotional suffering for you if he's not interested in more and if you sleep with him, you will be more emotionally attached.
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