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Relationship A.D.D.


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Do I suffer from relationship A.D.D. or do I just know what I want?

 

Seems like I have been ending all my relationships since this summer. Think the longest one ended after 2 months. Basically a FWB situation but we got really close even though we were opposites. Loved that girl. Ended that because I felt it was doomed from the outgo and she is poly amorous (look it up) so eventually she would want to move beyond.

 

The other girl was 6 weeks. Spending time with her I eventually lost interest because I feel there was some info missing from her past that was key and it made me uneasy that I felt that way and she hadn't said anything contrary. Plus she was staying in some cramped place with her sister and mom until she got resettled in town. She was 25. Guess she seemed to not have her stuff together and the not having her own place was a turn off.

 

The girl I am currently dating, which has the added complication of living in the same apartment complex as me (yeah yeah, already made a post about that lol) well...it seems there is a bitchy side of her that is coming out....And honestly I'm too much of a mellow person to have a bitchy person make me feel like I have to lash out verbally. That's just not me. Also seems like there are some early signs of clingyness. I'm tempted to let this one drop before it gets too much more complicated...thought we have slept together...so that doesn't help.

 

I honestly never 'dumped' a girl before this summer. Can't help but feel that I am either not feeling them out well enough within the first date....or somethings wrong with me >.<

 

What's your thoughts?

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