TheRock Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 My GF and I have been in a tough relationship ever since her dad realized we were "serious" 2 years ago and he realized he was "losing" her. He's desperately trying to hold on to her through manipulation and mind games\guilt trips. We've fought a lot lately about it and she feels bad that I'm stuck with her F-ed up family, as she says. She hates seeing me in pain being denied a great relationship because of her father's controlling ways. The issue is that when things get tough, she says hurtful things and I don't know if she TRULY means them, as her actions speak differently. Ex. When DADDY DEAREST interferes and she sees me depressed, mad or we have a fight, she might say something like, "I don't know how I feel about you anymore or if I'm even attracted to you anymore. If you can't deal with this any longer, maybe you and I aren't meant for each other. I feel bad hurting you like this." Yet, the day before she was all over me like a bad rash, baking me my fave cookies, cuddling w\me, taking me to dinner and having sex with me, THEN cuddling more saying how much she loved me. AM I CONFUSED!!! If I ask her about it, she gets mad. This scenario happens often lately. She also says aside from her f-ed up fam, she thinks she's going thru some hormonal thing like early menopause (common in her fam) or bad reaction to the pill, as everyone has said she's been really bitchy since she went on the pill. How do I tackle this delicate situation w\out it turning into a fight AND find out how she truly feels???
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