louiep Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 if she breaks up with you one day and is calling hotels the next and texting a number 50 times a day
atwitsend Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Dude she wants to be a whore. Let her. You will find someone prettier,funnier, and who will give you better sex. Move on.
whichwayisup Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Yes. Chances are she was cheating on you before the breakup. Noone just randomly sends 50 texts the NEXT day after a break-up and calls hotels..
Author louiep Posted December 26, 2008 Author Posted December 26, 2008 yes i know i just needed to here it from others thanks she can fu off
RecordProducer Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Do we know whom she texted? Or why she called hotels? Do we know if she cheated before she broke up?
Author louiep Posted December 26, 2008 Author Posted December 26, 2008 i dont know anything for certain dec 2 she said it was over dec 3 she started texting the same number 50 x a day and callled 5 hotels
sxyNYCcpl Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Unless you have some reason to believe the breakup is only temporary, does it matter? Even if it is only temporary, does it matter?
Dexter Morgan Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 if she breaks up with you one day and is calling hotels the next and texting a number 50 times a day THAT is not cheating no. But it tells me that she probably WAS cheating before that. And even if she wasn't, she isn't someone you should really want anyway.
Author louiep Posted December 26, 2008 Author Posted December 26, 2008 what about our home she doesnt want to move she doesnt want to sell and sell doesnt have the money to give me my part shes the one that cheated and wants me to get out with nothing but my clothes our home is worth abouy 60 k and we owe 20k loks like iam entitled to some of the equity
atwitsend Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Absolutely. As far as I know she can't force you out. If it can be proven that you were together.
lonelyandfrustrated Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 what about our home she doesnt want to move she doesnt want to sell and sell doesnt have the money to give me my part shes the one that cheated and wants me to get out with nothing but my clothes our home is worth abouy 60 k and we owe 20k loks like iam entitled to some of the equity Are you married? This will be handled in court during the divorce. Are you unmarried, but on the deed? Then get your butt back in that house you own, be civil, and go about your business. She'd have to force you out by TPO, but if you give her no cause (and "I don't like him" doesn't qualify as a cause), she can't force you out. Then it will either get uncomfortable enough for her to leave, or agree to sell and split equity. Or she could take out a HELOC and pay you off, and keep the house. Or you could do the same. But don't let some hoor boot you from your property without your just compensation.
Author louiep Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 yes i just want her to pay me my part and she can take the home and stuff it
moonshadow Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 yes i just want her to pay me my part and she can take the home and stuff it Think about it. In this economy where homes are worth less and less and many are losing them, maybe it would be better to buy HER out and then you have a home with some equity in it?
Author louiep Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 moon i would do that but im on ssi and cant afford the place by myself she has paid for most of the bills thats why i told her 10k and i would leave with my backtime ssi pay and 10 k i would be fine
Author louiep Posted December 30, 2008 Author Posted December 30, 2008 well heres the deal 5000 cash plus she responseble for all our cc debt 20k if she doesnt pay it they will take her home she borrow a 25k loan against the place now all my debts are paid and closed , i keep 1 for emergencys if she wants 2 morgages more power to her . im just clearing up somethings with ssi and when i get the money from her . signed the agreements im off to the country . i was going to buy a cabin on the river but have too many health probelms to live with no one around me she has found another man same age as me . but hes healthy im thankful for that lol im not able to take care of her sexually more power to them . now starts the coping wish you well louiep ps it hurts like hell
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