LazyLibra Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I'll make this short and to the point. Met my girlfriends brother last weekend and he totally disrespected me. was introduced to him, shook his hand said my hellos and he avoided eye contact and immediately turned around after we shook hands. He didn't say a word either. I expressed my feelings to the girlfriend and she agreed it was uncalled for and really rude. Now she wants me to go to her hometown and spend newyears with her brother and his fiancee. I told her i did not want to see him at the moment and it could potentially ruin the whole night for me. She agreed but now is saying "if you really cared you'd want to go". Should i stick to my guns and not go or should i suck it up
EYECANDY000 Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 The only reason I would see why the brother really isnt interested in getting to know you is because of something she may have said about you. I think if you feel that uncomfortable about being around her brother then you shouldnt put yourself in that surrounding!
Perry Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Under the circumstances if she really cared, and she was understanding she would not mind you not going. If this bothers her, and she continues on with this, this may be a warning sign that she MAY not be the one for you. Heck, she may not be for any guy if she acts like that.
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