loridori Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Not that I am too interested anymore, but it's tiring watching your husband grow addicted to computers and you'd think it would be enough working all day on them but when he gets home, it grabs the majority of his attention as well. He looks like the cliched aged perverted sicko magnetized to the computer screen. He uses it so much I wouldn't be surprised if he drops dead on one someday. Counting the days. Some of his bar friends are just as perverse engaging in details of our sex life over the dinner table. I excused myself and our children from the table. For the record, I whispered in his ear "what s** life? Ask the dog."
Walk Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I hate to break it to you, but your husband doesn't like you. If your negativity about this is a call for help, then you need to be honest with your husband. If he actually liked who you were as a person, then computers couldn't keep him away no matter how much he liked working with them. Then again, it doesn't sound like you like yourself. You sound incredibly unhappy with who you are, where you're at, and the path your life has taken. You might have plenty of reason to be unhappy with your partner, but unless you DO something about it, then all you've got is an ineffectual feeling of not being happy. You could rebuild your marriage. You could leave it. You could get your own hobbies and interests. You could take classes so you could get a job. You could do a great deal of things... I know it's easier to complain then to act, but for your own happiness in life, you need to take action.
Mr. Lucky Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I know it's easier to complain then to act, but for your own happiness in life, you need to take action. Couldn't agree more. So far the OP has posted that her H is addicted to the computer and has an inappropriate sexual interest in their dog (yikes!). Interesting how all her unhappiness is his fault... Mr. Lucky
You'reasian Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Not that I am too interested anymore, but it's tiring watching your husband grow addicted to computers and you'd think it would be enough working all day on them but when he gets home, it grabs the majority of his attention as well. He looks like the cliched aged perverted sicko magnetized to the computer screen. Do you see your husband as a cliche aged perverted sicko?
annieo Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Not that I am too interested anymore, but it's tiring watching your husband grow addicted to computers and you'd think it would be enough working all day on them but when he gets home, it grabs the majority of his attention as well. He looks like the cliched aged perverted sicko magnetized to the computer screen. He uses it so much I wouldn't be surprised if he drops dead on one someday. Counting the days. Some of his bar friends are just as perverse engaging in details of our sex life over the dinner table. I excused myself and our children from the table. For the record, I whispered in his ear "what s** life? Ask the dog." I think you're a riot, loridori! And I can relate, as I have a h who spends more time on WOW (world of warcraft) on a weekly basis than he does on sex for a couple of months. Not that I'm complaining: I don't think that I could have sex for three or four hours a day, nor would I want to. I think you should write all your musings down, and if you are as amusing verbally as you are in print, I think you should do stand up. Seriously, you're very, very funny. I need some clarification, however. Did he have the laptop at the dinner table? Potentially the Christmas dinner table, if you celebrate that holiday. Really??? If yes, holy moly, I'd be steaming it up for dessert. Or turning it into a party hat for his head.
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