hayatea Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Hi everyone. I have been down lately. Well I have met this girl in college and we were friends. Then one day Nov 14, I remember, she told me that would you ever want to be more than friends in the future. I was like wow a girl actaully likes me. I never had a girl like me. From then on we would talk alot. Share eachother feelings and stuff. The week on Thanksgving. She told me she was falling in love with me. I was too. I never had a gf and I really liked her. After that week is was nice. Then on thr second week. I wanted to hold her hand but she had her hands up the entire time, so ahh I couldn't. Well she as going througha hard time. She is a single mom and stuff. I would get a second job to help her out finicially. I really loved her alot. I would work around around 20 hours a day and I had school. To help her. While I was working. She was meeting with her babies father. I was like it's okay go ahead. We would be talking less less and less. I had a feeling that they were getting close. She told me that he asked her that he wants a relationship with her. I was really sad but I didn't want to stay in the way of maybe her having a the family that she always wanted. So I said you should give him a second chance. She said no. she doesn't want to. While telling her this I was really hurting but if you love someone you do whats best for them and not you. Well this week I texting her and she never textes me back. I call but nothing. I looked in her myspace page. It sais she is ina releationship but 30 min ago it said single. I told her to please tell me if anything happens. I don't want to persue someting will never be. I am just really hurting here. I never had anyone like me, love me, I've never open up my heart to anyone like her, I just wish she would tell me if she is in a relationship or something so I can move on. I couldn't even hold her hand or anything. I was soo hurting alot. I wanted to do something for v-day and now it doesn't look like it. I don't know what to do now. I am just sad and if it's true that she just leaves me or something. Well it will take forever for me to open up again.
Sandy22 Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I would say leave her alone for now since she doesn't want to return your calls or txts. Maybe she has indeed gotten back with her ex. You never know. Just leave her for bit and hope she has the decency to at least call you to let you know what and how she's doing.
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