letters Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I don't mean to be petty or anything, but lonliness is eating me up it's insane. I am married but we are basically existing as friends. My husband is a good guy, but he's 26 years older than me. I didn't think it would matter initially, but was I wrong? Sex is horrible, and gosh, we are so far apart in everything. He raises his voice at me somtimes, and it annoys me because it'd remind me of my father. We haven't had sex in like 1 year now, partly because he's libido is low and because I'm not interested... I never say no to him though, but he's stopped making advances... which is good for me. He's a good guy, but I'm lonely, whenever he touches my breasts, I get irritated. I feel terrible.
skinman Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I'm sorry to read what your going through... my best wishes for you.. I w9is h my STBXW was anything like you.. sadly she is not.. she left me 2 months ago for what she said was "space" well the space she wanted was to see her new friend... After 16 years together she tossed me aside like a rag.. I hope you can figure out what you want in life and screw him....... best wishes !!
AHIWON Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 26 year age gap? Are you wrong? Sounds like your father when he raises his voice? Irritated when he touches your breasts but hasn't had sex in a year? Are you real or trolling?
Author letters Posted December 25, 2008 Author Posted December 25, 2008 26 year age gap? Are you wrong? Sounds like your father when he raises his voice? Irritated when he touches your breasts but hasn't had sex in a year? Are you real or trolling? haven't had sex in a year Ahiwon! I'm irritated because the attraction is gone, but then I feel bad because he has a good heart.
Author letters Posted December 25, 2008 Author Posted December 25, 2008 I'm sorry to read what your going through... my best wishes for you.. I w9is h my STBXW was anything like you.. sadly she is not.. she left me 2 months ago for what she said was "space" well the space she wanted was to see her new friend... After 16 years together she tossed me aside like a rag.. I hope you can figure out what you want in life and screw him....... best wishes !! I'm sorry about your situation Skin. I can only imagine how you feel. I worry my husband is gonna hurt real bad if left. He turned 55 today. I'm 29. It started getting bad when the sex sucked and sucked. I'm sorry, I feel so bad
LEANER1 Posted December 28, 2008 Posted December 28, 2008 26 year age gap? What did you have in common to begin with? If you are 29 then you must realize there are alot of men out there that are much closer to your age. You must have interests of your own. If there is no sex and the love is gone then why stay? Have you tried talking? It may go a long way. How long have you been together/married? How is it that you, a 29 year old woman can live without sex? They make pills for his problem, not sure what your problem is though (not trying to be sarcastic). If he did raise his libido, would it help?
BrokenHearted2008 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Hello.. Im new at this.. but I have a story close to yours.. Would like to share with you about "not telling others" In time it will eat u up inside... My husband cheated in 2004 and I didnt tell any of the family.. I only had 2 friends that I could talk to about it.. It was not easy.. If I had to do it over, I would have told the family so that I would have had some support and not feel so alone in all of my pain..
mark982 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 letters, you post is all over the place, one 1 hand you never tell him no to sex, on the other it irrates you.then why even bother? have you sat down and discussed his yelling? you keep saying he's a good man, so there must be something that's keeping you there.
Recommended Posts