Helioz Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 So yeah, my ex gf dumped me about 2 weeks ago over a rediculous argument in which my words hurt her really bad (i just told her my feelings, i never insulted or humiliated her in any way, i didnt even raise my voice). But anyway, i asked for forgiveness and she didnt budge and broke up with me. So today she sends me a text-- "happy holidays, say hi to your parents for me." What pisses me off too is that she sends it from another cell phone, so the only thing i see is a number on the screen so that i wont know its her till i read it. it really f**cked up my day today, i started hurting instantly. Its obvious that her anger against me has passed, and i know she still loves me because she broke up with me over the idea of not wanting to get hurt again. Shes WAY too sensitive. So what gives? does she miss me?, trying to slowly reconcile? does she want to be friends? I have no idea what the hells going on. All of these thoughts are racing through my head, i feel like i need to contact her so badly!!!...*sigh* but i wont. Ive been NC since we broke up till today. I sent her a merry xmas back too and that was all.
againstallodds Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Don't do anything. Let her contact u again. if she doesn't keep NC.
EmperorR Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Don't do anything. Let her contact u again. if she doesn't keep NC. I agree, trust me if she wanted you back it would be more than a merry christmas
Author Helioz Posted December 25, 2008 Author Posted December 25, 2008 The thing is, that we both work in the same lab doing research under the same professor in college. I think maybe she just wants to patch things up before we get back from winter break so that it wont be an awkward environment in that little room.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 Tell her she is like bacteria in your eyes. A flesh eating bacteria that has been injected into your blood, and has latched onto your heart and began eating it away. Tell her she is some kind of unknown virus that has infected your soul and your mind. Then take a picture of her face once you do it. Owned ***I say all this because this girl is seemingly selfish. So put her in her place, and don't forget pics.
Ty Webb Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 I just recieved the Christmas text from her after 7 days of no contact. I am suprised she sent me anything. Such a cold girl. I miss her so much, Christmas was horrible without her, I must have teared up 10 times during presents opening today but never broke down so i don't think anyone noticed. I have to respond to her but not until tomorrow morning before tennis. I already sent her a card and gave her a christmas present but nothing from her except two words on a cell phone. Am i supposed to give a ****! Is that just to keep my false hopes alive? Yea, i think so. I bet she called several guys today to talk to them and after all we have been through i get a lousy text. Why do women do this? I don't think anyone answered that question and do you respond if you want her back more than anything?
Author Helioz Posted December 26, 2008 Author Posted December 26, 2008 i know, her text was all exclamations and smiley faces as if she's trying to rub it in that shes over me or something. What a cold hearted b**ch! I dont even think she is even remotely aware of how much she hurt me.
zilverenvlinder Posted December 26, 2008 Posted December 26, 2008 Text her back: "Happy holidays b*tch, thanks for the text. I told my parents you said 'hi' and they told me to tell you to go f**k yourself."
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