Lonely but dont understand what i am doing wrong

[jack79]

hmm i am in the U.K studying i was just wondering any idea what one has to do make friends with the girls here i mean i know Every place is different I mean in my personal experience I like American girls cause I feel they are easy going , while I feel the British girls are reserved … is this a fact if so how do I approach them or is it that I just haven’t met enough girls .. I mean I have been here for over a year now , but I find it very akward with girls over here

 

Any advise ..something I should know , I mean I am a very easy going person and I am looking to make friends not just for s**

[yes]

well, do you have any friends at all? if so, ask them to introduce you to more people - that's the easiest way.

 

i heard UK girls aren't so shy though... perhaps depends on location.

 

good luck,

-yes

[jack79]

Well i am in Cardiff .. as for friends well i had a few but most of them have gone back home .. while i am going to be here for another year cause my course is longer ...

 

So i am basically going to be on my own for a while

[moimeme]

The best bet if you want to meet people who might like you is to pursue an interest of yours by joining a club or association. Maybe take up volunteer work. Join some sort of group that shares one of your interests - that gives you something to talk about with people and there will likely be women in any club that you can get to know, too.

[jack79]

Hey thanks I think that’s a good idea , joining a club or something .. good

 

suggestion thanks again ,

[charleskg]

American women are very picky. I understand your sense of loneliness. I sometimes can't sleep at night because of the deep emotional turmoil that starts in my chest and spreads throughout my body. I wish it didn't hurt so much but I guess that it just the way it is.