healsole Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 I am recently divorced- (less than a year) and i just started dating a man that i met a few months ago. i have no feelings what so ever for my ex (except for maybe anger- but for the most part i have moved on, since our relationship was over long before the div.) I like the new guy- we have been casual and have had so much fun...but every few days or so i start feeling angry and resentful towards him. i feel scared that he's just using me, and i get these paranoid crazy thoughts running through my head. He hasn't given me any factual, list-able reason to feel this way! He has only been compassionate and sweet. Is this a normal thing to be going through- can anyone else share exp. with this sort of thing? He is the 1st guy I've dated since my ex...
moonshadow Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 Well I don't think it's "usual" to feel "used" by someone if they've given you absolutely NO reason whatsoever to feel used. Did your ex husband use you in some way? - could that be where this fear stems from?
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