EmperorR Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I really like this girl alot and I don't want it to be a rebound or whatever, but it seems like daily for a little bit my cheating ex floats in my mind and stupid thoughts like what if she came back even though I don't want her back. Argh
sultry33 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I really like this girl alot and I don't want it to be a rebound or whatever, but it seems like daily for a little bit my cheating ex floats in my mind and stupid thoughts like what if she came back even though I don't want her back. Argh just take it slow.. x
Peter_pan Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 dont put your happiness on the line for anyone. make yourself happy and do anything to get it
Rafa Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I really like this girl alot and I don't want it to be a rebound or whatever, but it seems like daily for a little bit my cheating ex floats in my mind and stupid thoughts like what if she came back even though I don't want her back. Argh I think your first sentence means that it's worth a try dating this girl. I think about my ex every day too, but dating has done me the world of good. just take it slow.. x Happy Christmas Sultry
alwayssme Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 if you like her then just keep getting to know her...are you sure you like her though or you just enjoy her company? I went on dates thought I liked the person, then completely realized I wasn't ready. It depends, only you can answer that for yourself. My advice is keep getting to know her better, if she is a good girl..even if you realize you're not into her romantically, she could turn out to be a good friend.
Author EmperorR Posted December 24, 2008 Author Posted December 24, 2008 if you like her then just keep getting to know her...are you sure you like her though or you just enjoy her company? I went on dates thought I liked the person, then completely realized I wasn't ready. It depends, only you can answer that for yourself. My advice is keep getting to know her better, if she is a good girl..even if you realize you're not into her romantically, she could turn out to be a good friend. At first it was the company I won't lie, but I like her alot now, so much if my ex came back the only reason I would say screw you get away from me is because of this new girl. I guess I won't really know until I go out on a date with her.
Peter_pan Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 date her !!!! that old gf of yours dont deserve you man. never look back
alwayssme Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 if you're sure you like her, then go for it
sultry33 Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 I think your first sentence means that it's worth a try dating this girl. I think about my ex every day too, but dating has done me the world of good. Happy Christmas Sultry dating is the way to go Rafa;) ive had lots of dates and all good noone that special though but a new guy who i had good vibes about called me back after id given up hope of hearing from him only met him for 20mins at a club, i had flu so was not at my best but thats how it happens huh heres to a better year:D hope your holidays are going well Rafa and everyone else here on loveshack big hugs to all:love:
saturnfell Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 There's no harm in dating. If you find it's not for you, and you're not ready yet, that's ok, but there's only one way to find out.
Author EmperorR Posted December 27, 2008 Author Posted December 27, 2008 Asked her out going on our first date soon.
saturnfell Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Yes, please let us know the outcome. It's easy to move on, but let us know!
burningashes Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Yay! If you really like the new girl, you won't have any problems telling your ex to get lost. I told mine to get lost Keep us posted!
Author EmperorR Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 Well the first date was good, I've been talking to her for months now, i think she is the only reason while i'm almost over my ex. She's going back to school and it's about 3 hours away, but she invited me over for a weekend in a few weeks. No I'm not going to have sex with her or anything, but I am going to visit her for the weekend life is to short and I have nothing holding me back.
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