tincanman99 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I want to hear a woman's perspective. I dated this girl a while back. Had a good vibe and we had a great time. She didnt return my contact efforts after going out a bunch of times (about a month's worth of dating) so I cut off all contact with her (we are talking about a few phone calls and email). To me it seemed like wasted effort so I walked away. Since than occasionally I have been running into her. I have totally ignored her and wont give her the time of day since her behavior was disrespectful. As of late she is now talking to me again but I have been keeping it very close lipped. That being said, what would happen if I started being friendly again? We used to have a great vibe and used to chat all the time as we were friends before even dating. I would like to explore the relationship again but am very hesitant to step out the box because it will make me vulnerable because I will be chatting her up again. I would like to hear what women would think about this.
iamenough Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 The way I see it (based on what you've written) you literally have nothing to lose by being friendly. If you want to get back to the 'great vibe' you had as friends, then I think you should.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 Sure, be friendly, but I wouldn't open up too much to her. I think after a month of dating it is really rude to blow you off like that. She should have told you that it wasn't working for her. Or whatever.
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