Confusedalways Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I was just browsing Plenty of Fish, the free dating website. I have a profile but it's mostly blank, no picture and no real information on it. I just use it to look. I didn't really plan to find anyone that peaked my interest, mostly just surfing out of boredom. But, I found a guy who intrigues me. Now, do I use his AIM that he lists on it and speak to him, or is that weird? Or do I upload a picture of myself on my current profile (which, I don't really want my picture on the internet for anyone to see so this is kind of what i'm hoping to avoid) orrrr make an entirely new profile and message him?! I don't even know if it's worth all this stress but I thought maybe i'd see you everyone out here thought.
2sure Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I understand not wanting to post a picture on the public profile. Email him or message him telling him the same and offer to send him one privately.
Adri Ana Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I was just browsing Plenty of Fish, the free dating website. I have a profile but it's mostly blank, no picture and no real information on it. I just use it to look. I didn't really plan to find anyone that peaked my interest, mostly just surfing out of boredom. But, I found a guy who intrigues me. Now, do I use his AIM that he lists on it and speak to him, or is that weird? Or do I upload a picture of myself on my current profile (which, I don't really want my picture on the internet for anyone to see so this is kind of what i'm hoping to avoid) orrrr make an entirely new profile and message him?! I don't even know if it's worth all this stress but I thought maybe i'd see you everyone out here thought. The fact that he put his AIM on his page means he is open to talk . Talk to him ,it would not sound weird , then email or send via IM your picture . Talking to him you will understand if he is worth your efforts to make a new profile or whatever you intended to do ______________________________________________________ Frank Lloyd Wright: The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen.
sweetgirl99 Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 If you are intrigued by this guy, you should use his AIM to message him if that is what he has listed as a contact. If you are uncomfortable using your main AIM screen name, you could always make up an alternate one until you feel comfortable giving out any of your information. I am involved with something sort of similar, however we have been talking for quite some time and I am now using web cam with him. You dont need to feel pressured at all to send him a picture. If he's legit and not a weirdo, he wont pressure you. you can always post a pic of yourself on your messenger and he could see it there I hope this helps! Good Luck!!
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