hurt&sad Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 Ok...So it's been 7 official days since my ex and I broke up. We used to live together for 2 years. Lately Ive been feeling like I made a mistake by leaving him and Ive been wanting to go back. Well, This is his reply... "We've been struggling financially since the longest, I really want to make everything better for us and move to a decent apartment instead of being here in the small studio. I feel better knowing that you're in your parents house without having to worry if we'll eat or not today. So ima focus on us getting an apartment for us to be good. I love you but I cannot have you living like this always. I promise that as soon as I get that apartment I'll call you and ask you if you still wanna live with me. I can't be with you because I need you to focus too so that you can help us out, and I know that you and I being together living separately is not going to let you focus." But the thing is that I don't feel like I should wait for this to happen. I mean, I don't know if he's dating or not but I feel like he can fall for someone else soon and where am I gonna be standing?....opinions please....
Adri Ana Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 You have been given a good chance to test yours and his feelings. If he is true and sincere about getting better living conditions for you both,then you will see it soon . If it was just an excuse to go away , again this too you will see soon .And it is good to discover red flags as soon as possible... People have different points of view,various perception. I personally would look at it just like you : It has to be won together ,living and fighting for better living conditions together, but people vary , they have different personalities,so maybe for your bf it seems just Right to act like this as he is doing,and his intentions are the best . All you can do is to wait and see. Meanwhile make your life filled by some events that would let you think less of your situation .
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