Lucky555 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 He wants to go out for lunch. I suggested dinner and walk around a place ect since we have not seen each other for a month. Is this saying...good bye? I really rather not go out on a date if hes not into it and if hes just doing it to be nice. Does this sound weird?
Author Lucky555 Posted December 23, 2008 Author Posted December 23, 2008 is this a good thing or a bad thing? I have never been on a date during the day. Its usually been the night out of all guys i have dated....
moonshadow Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 is this a good thing or a bad thing? I have never been on a date during the day. Its usually been the night out of all guys i have dated.... Good Lord, don't overanalyze it! It's very common for people to go out for lunch, it doesn't "mean" anything ominous.
Author Lucky555 Posted December 23, 2008 Author Posted December 23, 2008 well the fact he is making it during the day, isn't sticking to what we talked about and sort of changed it up like this is weird. Lunch to me says..I want to get this over with quickly. I would think after not seeing someone your interested in for awhile that he would be thinking of a nice romantic evening for us...it appears VERY casual.
Ocean-Blue Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 You are over-thinking this. Since there's not much info to go on, just prepare as if it were a date and see what happens. If he does break it off with you, you'll know to expect it now and you can keep your poise. But lunch dates aren't uncommon. I know guys who are big fans of "brunch" dates.
moonshadow Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 well the fact he is making it during the day, isn't sticking to what we talked about and sort of changed it up like this is weird. Lunch to me says..I want to get this over with quickly. I would think after not seeing someone your interested in for awhile that he would be thinking of a nice romantic evening for us...it appears VERY casual. Well if you don't provide significant details when you post asking for advice, we can't really give it to you. You didn't mention that this request to meet for lunch was a change in previous plans. If you haven't seen each other for a few weeks maybe he doesn't want to wait until the evening to see you, is so excited that he wants to see you sooner that day? do you have any reason to believe or suspect that he'd break up with you? Why don't you just ask HIM why he's changed the plans? - he's the only one who will know why...right?
prettybaby Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 Lunch dates can be nice! Especially if you both have nothing planned for the afternoon; it can easily drag on and shift to other activities. I wouldn't necessarily look at "lunch vs dinner" as "downgrade vs upgrade". Unless there's a specific background story that backs up your assumption?
vanilla87 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 He wants to go out for lunch. I suggested dinner and walk around a place ect since we have not seen each other for a month. Is this saying...good bye? I really rather not go out on a date if hes not into it and if hes just doing it to be nice. Does this sound weird? lol, I get what your saying, but don't read into it too much. He wants to see you during the day, which means he could run into someone he personally knows and wants to show you off, cause maybe he really likes you and thinks your a great catch, which means, maybe he is trying to hint that he wants to see you other then at night...
Author Lucky555 Posted December 24, 2008 Author Posted December 24, 2008 thanks for the advise everyone. I am trying to stay positive with myself. He is the first date since my break up 8 months ago. Maybe I'm just a little off base with this. THanks for all the feed back. I guess I just need to be more relaxed and more excited instead of worried and cautious.
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