ks10 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 My boyfriend "wants to be alone right now" and so broke up with me. He lost his job of 5 years 2 months ago. He is trying to work on his own towing boats out of h2o and odd jobs. His mom was killed in a car accident in Jan when he was 15 (now 28) so he says jan is really hard for him. He says he is sad scared and feels like he is out on a raft in the ocean. He said he is going to Tahoe to stay with his best friend and his wife for Christmas and may not come back for a month. when he was saying all of this and telling me it is not going to be the same with us , he was holding me and crying. He said that he still likes me and wants to see me again and wants me in his life, be his friend. Our relationship was really good- he even said, our personalities compliment each other, we have same values, wants ideas, etc . In November I was complaining a lot that he did't want to see me as much, I was giving him a hard time and drama. He never gets mad at me and he snapped and said hes easygoing and I am so drama. we took a week "break" but of course I emailed him 2 times and called once! Now he says he wants to be alone and misses me so much it makes him sick to his stomach and wants to crawl in bed with me but just doesnt. Is there hope for us to get back together?
BackonTrack2 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 nothing you can do, leave him alone, he's messed up in the head...
Author ks10 Posted December 25, 2008 Author Posted December 25, 2008 I am leaving him alone but really want us to be together again. is there hope once he gets his head on straight? I am totally leaving him alone but wonder if he misses me still
Hersheys Posted December 25, 2008 Posted December 25, 2008 I went through the same situation with my ex. Don't believe him when he says that he wants the two of you to be together again. If he really does want that, he wouldn't have broken up with you. He would be with you. You are doing the right thing by leaving him alone and yes he misses you but not enough to want to be with you. You will be a lot happier if you do not allow him to keep you in his life.
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