justdoe Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I thought I had my true love. In April he gave me the "your better off" speech. The other day he txt me some pc geek stuff. I want to speak to him so badly. Do I chance sending him a txt? Or should I just forget about it. he has never contacted me since the 'Dump". Just some codes a few days back. BE BRUTALLY HONEST. PLEASE.
FeedingOnFever Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 If you don't mind my asking, what was happening between you two before the "better off" speech? I'm sketchy on the details. I agree that you're better off waiting for him to contact you, though. I've been told countless times: "If he wants to be with you, he'll come back." It's out of our control, and by not talking to him, you are making it so that he doesn't figure he can have the best of all worlds: be single, but still keep you as a close friend (so still enjoying your company.) He left you, so by witholding your presence, it makes it more likely for him to miss you than if you talk to him too much.
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