Sw3etdev1L Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I met this boy in a club...we were talking to each other about serious stuff you know? not about the usual conversations you get on a club. So, I put him in my facebook, just because I wanted us to talk, really...he said he was leaving to get a masters degree to another country. So I really didn't expect for him to ask me for my phone number. But he did!, he called me...and he wanted to go out with me like the next day but I already had something to do..so he called next week and we went out to dinner.. We had fun, then..he said he was gonna go to a vacation but he was going to be back. When he arrived from his vacation he called me to see if I wanted to go out with him again.. THis time I couldn't!!!.. I got really sick, I had a terrible flu with temperature and so I answered with my nose all full of you know...my nose spoke for me and he noticed I was sick. So, he said it was a pity I couldn't go out with him...because he was gonna travel on the weekend, that he would call me some other time. A week passed, it was my birthday on a friday ...he just left me a note saying "happy birthday and kisses"....this was on friday..today is monday and I am waiting for his call because I am gonna go for a vacation this friday!...do you think he will call?...why didn't he call me this past week! I mean...oh well, men. I don't understand men...generally. I am too simple.
JohnnyBlaze Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 Does he know you're traveling on the weekend? He could just think that, with Christmas in a few days, you're busy like everyone else seems to be. So, he could just be waiting to call you on the weekend. You're overthinking it. We're not that complicated. The only time we get tricky is when we're trying to read a woman. It's not like he has forgotten about you. If he didn't want to see you, he probably wouldn't have left you the birthday note. Do you have his number? Give him a call! Tell him you're feeling better!
Author Sw3etdev1L Posted December 24, 2008 Author Posted December 24, 2008 You are so right, the fact is..When time starts passing and I don't see my phone ringing and I know we had fun and he is interested I start to feel anxious, insegure and nervous and I start to want to call him. But!, the truth is I can't...because, we have just gone out one day and I don't want to seem urged even if I am desperate to talk to him..I feel the need to control myself to be certain he is demonstrating his interest in me and to feel..good with myself. like...if I call him what if he is not interested anymore and I aam rejected..I wouldn't want to be rejected.
Author Sw3etdev1L Posted December 25, 2008 Author Posted December 25, 2008 I just sent him a note saying, I was going to be on the beach this friday...he is also gonna go there so....I told him merry x.mas and that we should hang out there... quite random truly.. I didn't want to seem overemotional.
Recommended Posts