JohnAB Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 So I acused my girlfriend of liking another guy, because she was talking to him alot lately. I got really upset and left and told her im done with this crap, and hung up. The other guy was just a really close friend of hers from 2 years ago, and they just talk mostly. Its been a couple days, and I've tried talking to her but she wont really talk to me. She said she is tired of the games, and that I just constantly leaving when theirs a problem. I asked her if she wanted me to leave her alone and was the relationship over. She said she wasnt sure about what she wants now. She said at one point that she would still be my friend. I then asked her if she love me and she said yes...She wont talk to me on the phone or anything i've called and she wont answer. Im not to sure what to do but give her space I guess and see what happens...Does it sound like their is any hope of getting her back?
Weezy Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 Wow, Same situation buddy. My EX sent a txt message to the friend that invited him into her bedroom to "talk" apparently he just wanted to talk about his own girl problems, but man, you don't invite a guy into your bedroom (he lives down the hall in an apt). Anyway, I took about a week to myself, then forgave her, but it kept eating at me. Several weeks later she started fights with me out of nowhere about stuff that had happened in the past. I explained that you can't constantly bring up old stuff in a relationship, it took an hour long conversation for her to agree, then the next night when I was taking her out to dinner she goes off outta nowhere about the same thing and I was like.. okay, this is too much and ended it. Anyway, I started to miss her after a few weeks, she called up crying after the first week, but then after Thanksgiving and not having her there, I decided if she was willing to work at things, and do some couseling, that I'd be willing to work at stuff. We got togeather, talked about what we both wanted in the relationship, argued a bit, and in the end, she left and said that she was still unsure if she wanted to try it again. That was almost 2 weeks ago and I haven't heard anything since.. Time to move on I think for both of us.
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