silverbunny Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 if you know my story then you can skip down a little, but for those who are new, here's me in a nutshell: fyi im 19 and he's 18 : dated a guy a year and a half, he ended things because he started to feel differently towards me, i was "too safe" for his risky/adventerous personality, i wasn't "what he was looking for", etc. but we got back together for 2 1/2 weeks because he felt bad for me (i call it a pity relationship and hardly count it because he did NOTHING meaningful during this time... like trying to fix what was wrong). SOOO that was june (when it ended the first time) and august (the second/pity time). since then he's met lots of girls, mostly from work, and is now dating one... it's been roughly a week. when he talked to other girls (before now) i had major emotional distress. but now that he's actually dating someone else im... like completely fine. it kinda shocked me when he was in this relationship but nothing big like before. we talk very frequently and there is nothing bitter that i can sense. he hasn't brought her up and neither have i. i am not giving into him thinking im begging him back so i will not ask about her until he brings it up or asks me what i think. so does this mean im 'over' him? that i can go on and keep my friendship with him? i asked several close friends but they all were like "idk do you feel over him?" .... i gave up talking to them.
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