For anyone who thinks psycho behaviour will work after a break up think again

[kreens]

it will not get your ex back..

 

it will just make you look needy, obsessive and plain old stupid.... and possibly insomnia LOL. Or like me make them hate you..

 

hmmm 2 weeks of NC and im still feeling like crap. i sleep four hours a night and seldom eat... (trying to but my appetite is crap)

 

Bear in mind that my ex lives across the road. Long term i should really think about moving... do i really want to see his new GF in the future.. i think not...

 

off to the docs tomorrow to try and tackle this sleep deprivation. its killing me

 

xxxx K

[FeedingOnFever]

What happened between you? Sorry if this is already covered in a different thread... just direct me to it if that's the case.

 

I think I lost all respect from my ex when I had to beg him to sleep on it instead of running off into the night with all his things. Long story made short, after I convinced him to stay and for us to go on break instead of full-on breaking up, things were great for 2 weeks and then he just left anyway.

 

I regret doing that, but ultimately I feel he would have left anyway. It's hard to accept that sometimes. I think moving in the long term might be a good idea for you. Traveling sounds so appealing to me, too. Are you in a position where you can take time off and go hop around to some different places?

[EmperorR]

ya it does make you look pathetic, but I think it's just a natural reaction to someone you have been with forever just saying get lost.

 

If there is one thing I could change it would be go NC right off the back.

[californiadreaming]

From what I hear, you are 100% honest. I tried all of that crazy stuff the first day or two of the break up. Calling her job, sending mass emails, talking to her sister, co-workers, etc.. and ugh yea that didn't work at all. She was furious with me!

 

When I finally talked to her again at the end of the week, she pretty much let me have it. I had never seen my ex like that. So yea, keep the NC thing going. We all feel like crap! But, keep strong, kepp focused, and keep busy, I guess!

[alwayssme]

lol thats true..

 

i never acted like a "psycho" though..I didn't act crazy, I just simply told him I loved him and cried, which is understandable, he cried too...

 

 

then after that i kept on bringing "us" up and getting back together....lol of course that didn't work either.

 

Grr...now that I think about it, nothing worked...haha and i went NC hoping he would care or miss me...even if he does he isn't letting me know that lol.....

 

 

Now I have given up hope of us getting back, i still miss talking to him though and still have this urge to break NC...blah