HEG Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 I broke things off with the someone I love very much and the pain is almost more than I can take. ___________________ It was the most beautiful/most ugly relationship. I've been put on a pedestal and I've been chopped to the ground. I've experienced both the most intense love and the most painful, vile hatred. I've done the same in return. It is I who walked away. Not what I want but what is right. For both of us because I love us. Can anyone relate to that? I am a mess.
BikerBeagle Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 I'm sure there's an interesting story there ...somewhere.
Ronni_W Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 It is I who walked away. ... Not what I want but what is right. I can relate (even without your back story .) It took me a long time to accept that the break-up WAS EXACTLY what I wanted (and needed.) It was totally right...but only for me. The guilt and self-judgments do, indeed, leave one feeling a complete mess. It helps when one can accept that it was a self-protective, self-serving, perfectly valid and courageous choice.
Crazy.S Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I have never dumped anyone before, but I have been dumped. Could you explain more about your feelings and why you decided to walk away? It would really help to understand the other side. Maybe I can relate to it.
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